Beyond The Spotlight

Don't be in a rush trying to be like someone else, take time to discover who you are, this is the first step to liberation! The world is already filled with imitators we need more originators. I have taught it over time, that we are unique and custom made, none of us is mass produced, isn't it amazing that our fingerprint and iris is not the same? That alone always wow me, but at the same time it is an indication that there are some assignments that just only you can fulfill and not by me or anyone else, you were not created to add up to the statistics of people in the world, you have a place in this big field called life, all you need to do is to find where you belong and what you are meant to do. One of the most frequent questions I have dealt with over time is, how do I discover who I am''? "Growing up, I have seen so many of my friends that can't take charge of their lives just because someone else is paying the bills, breaking free from the controlling hand of their parents, Uncle or Aunty is a statement of crying for independence, that means you have to be responsible for your life decisions and of course paying your own bills. Do not get me wrong, I am not saying have a loving and supportive family is wrong but if their support is dominating and dictating how you should leave your life, making life-changing and altering decisions without consulting you, then maybe it's time for you to re-evaluate". Extract from the book BEYOND THE SPOTLIGHT