How to Become Exceptional

Do exceptional things. Being exceptional requires you do "things" that will test the limits of your ability. Most importantly work with people who are exceptional and more talented than you in every way. Business is good for me when I work with people who are smarter and more gifted than I am. Most of us are average across several domains. I'm an average writer, I'm an average speller, I'm an average bowler, but I'm an exceptional connector of people. I'm exceptional at taking action and the initiative on new projects. I'm average to below average at most jobs. But there are a few things I've become exceptional at. Ask 5 people, who will be honest with you, what you're good at. Focus on becoming even more exceptional at those few things. Stay average at everything else. Haha trust me the good ones are not all taken! Some of the best men i know literally the sweetest guys are single as fuck!! One main thing is they are not considered sexy! They don't have muscles they are overweight and focus on their careers! They have deeeeeep pockets with massive hearts! Great forever men to hitch up with but women rarely look twice at them! So stop being so shallow and your options will open up massively! Also another answer kinda touched on it and i would like to as well! Alot of you women truthfully are not worth dating! You think your stock is high when really you're barely adults ha! The amount of women on my snapchat that post a pic of something they cooked with the text #wifeme is ridiculous! You do know we know how to cook as well right?Myself for example i cook, clean, do my laundry, work fulltime, workout often, fully own my car, have under 20,000 in debt, and make around 50,000 a year! Now comes along Ashley who says we should date! Her selling point is i can cook like a beast and im sexy you should be lucky im interested in you cause i have 30 other guys dying to be with me! Why in the hell would i wanna settle down with that If you cant at least match what i do im not interested cause as of now im quite happy single if all of a sudden i have to do everything i already do times 2 but no longer have to cook that doesnt sound very appealing!!So ladies listen up if you want a man to want you you need to up your game! The average worthwhile man to date does all the shit i listed and in many cases even more! If you cant match that you bring no value to his life so LOGICALLY why would he give you the time of day TO BECOME EXCEPTIONAL YOU MUST STAY FOCUSED IN YOUR PURPOSE, BE CONFIDENT IN YOURSELF.